Choosing a remote access tool
Which tool fits gaming, AI/compute work or general desktop use, and how to set it up.
Gaming and video editing (low latency)
- Parsec: easy setup, very low latency, free for personal use. Both sides install the app; the owner shares the computer with the renter's Parsec account.
- Moonlight + Sunshine: open source. The owner runs Sunshine and pairs with the renter's Moonlight client using a PIN. Best with an NVIDIA/AMD GPU and a fast upload connection.
AI training and compute (command line)
- SSH over Tailscale or ZeroTier: the owner invites the renter to a private network. No ports need to be opened to the internet.
- Jupyter: run JupyterLab behind Tailscale or an SSH tunnel; never expose it publicly without a password.
- Use Docker containers so the renter's work is isolated and easy to wipe afterwards.
General desktop use
- RustDesk: open source, works across Windows, macOS and Linux; you can even self-host the relay server.
- UU Remote: free, low-latency desktop streaming for Windows and macOS, widely used in mainland China; share the connection code only inside the conversation.
- Chrome Remote Desktop, AnyDesk, TeamViewer: simple, use one-time access codes.
- Windows RDP: only through a VPN such as Tailscale, never with port 3389 open to the internet.
Check before you start
- Owner's upload speed: at least 20 Mbps for 1080p streaming, more for 4K.
- Ping between both sides: under 50 ms feels good for gaming.
- Run a short paid or free test session before a long rental.